Chess gives children so much self-confidence.  In a world where they are often ignored, their viewpoints and opinions are overridden by adults on a regular basis, it is wonderfully exhilarating for them to have an area where they are king or queen.

You may think that a child needs to be a champion in order to feel great about themselves.  Actually I have found that children just need to start playing.  They get an almost cocky edge when they know a bit about the game.  It’s the slightly crooked smile that is the dead give away.

When we teach at schools we are often greeted with an enthusiastic “CHESS!!!” when we enter the room.  Some days we come in and volunteer time in order to give the children a chance to just play.

Last Wednesday we went to Delphi and I entered a lower school class of 8 year olds.  Their teacher had given us permission to take them to the library to play a little.  It was open to anyone who was interested.  We were all amazed when every single student jumped up and formed a line.  They all wanted to play.

They love to play and learn.  They love to show off their skills and try new things.

Consider teaching your children to play chess.  Allow them to be proud of every step they take, praise them and watch their self-confidence soar.